Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Bible Instructions on Facing Troublesome Times



How to Face the Future in Times Like These
Barbara Henderson

It is a dark and stormy night in America and in the entire world.  Evil is called good, and good is called evil. Families are dissolving right before our eyes.  Financial structures are wobbly at best.  There are rumors that the food supply is growing increasingly limited.  Water is not even guaranteed in the land of the free and the home of the brave.  And hard work gets you less and less.  The global threat of terror is spreading to the United States.  Godless individuals attack innocent people based on religion and race. The world is going downhill at an alarming rate. It would be cause for great despair except for the Bible.  Because of the Bible we have a somewhat detailed explanation of what to expect.  Best of all, Christians know the final outcome.  The meek shall inherit the earth and delight themselves in the abundance of peace.  We can’t know the exact details of our personal path ahead or even the details of the evil that will come to pass before we depart this earth.  But, we do have instructions on how to live our lives, and we know the final outcome.

Psalm 37 is the Psalm by which can successfully pattern our thoughts and our lives.  The entire chapter is at the end of this article.  Let’s start by looking at verses one and two.
Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity.
For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither as the green herb.’

‘Fret not’ means don’t worry. ‘Exactly how does one not worry?’ you may wonder.  The formula for skipping worry as a part of your daily life is fairly simple.  You determine not to worry to begin with.  The next step is to fill your mind with the good things of God.  Remember the story from the New Testament where Jesus cast out the demon.  The demon found no place of rest, so he returned to the man who was his home to begin with.  He did not return alone.  He took more of devils with him, so the man was worse off than before the demon had been cast out to begin with. The reason the demon and his cohorts were able to come back was that the man had swept the place clean but left it empty.  He had not filled his mind and heart with anything good so evil was able to return.

In order to stop worrying on a constant basis you have to put good things in your thoughts.  The things are continually and totally good are the teachings of Christ.  All of your daily blessings are worthy of thankfulness to God, but thinking on the good things of God that do not seem directly related to you at the moment is going to bless you.  So first, you determine that you will not fret or worry.  Don’t fret about evildoers.  Don’t be envious against the workers of iniquity.  To me that means don’t be ‘jealous’ of their seeming success.  Whatever the wickedness of others happens to be at the moment, their victory is temporary.  Their end is clearly foretold here.  They are going to get run over by the lawn mower, or something sort of like that. 

In determining to think on the things of Christ you will face the usual three enemies.  The first enemy is yourself.  We all must fight our sin nature all the time.  The second enemy is the devil and his demons.  They are real.  They hate you. They want to destroy you.  The third enemy is the world, or more exactly the world system. The world system is corrupt at its very best.  You have to consistently fight against becoming fonder of the things of the world than you are of the things of Christ.  There isn’t any way out of this world except death or the rapture.  So, yes, we do have to live in it.  We do not have to assimilate into the population of the world.  Do the things Christ says to do and you will not fit into the world today. 

Then Psalm 37 moves on to how to live and prosper in this world.
Trust in the Lord, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed.
Delight thyself also in the Lord: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass.’

This is the three step program that transforms lives for the better.  These three steps are complete with promises from God.

Trust in the Lord and do good is the command.  The promise is that you will live in the land and have food to eat

Delight is command number two.  Get to know the Lord better.  He is delightful.  In knowing Him better He personally puts good desires in your heart.  He gives you a calling to do things He calls good.  Your personal calling may or may not call for a big change in your life.  It may be that you are doing what God wants you to do already.  He may want you to put more effort into whatever it is that you are doing.  He may want you to put less into one area of your life and more into a different area of your life. He may give you a desire to do something totally different.   As you read and study the Bible you will find delight in the Lord.  Pleasing Him becomes worthy of your best efforts.  Don’t approach getting to know the Lord better as something unpleasant.  It is work that is delightful. Look for the Lord’s leading as you study.  Remember that God will never lead you to do anything outside the boundaries of righteous behavior that are set down in the Bible.  God never tells anyone to ‘make their mind a blank’ when they meditate. He says to meditate on His word all the time.  Follow His instructions and you will not be sorry.

Commitment is the third step in this three step program.  It is up to the Lord to bring things to pass.  You have no need to manipulate or struggle to ‘make’ things come out like you want them too.  Let the Lord bring it to pass. If you struggle and bully to make things go the way you think they should go then you haven’t actually accomplished anything except sinning.

Verse seven instructs clearly that we are not to manipulate or begin to worry about the outcome of anything.
 Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass.’
When you have done all you can do it is time to rest.  Rest from worry.  There may still be physical work to do.  Maybe you can manage your time, efforts, and money better.  Of course you need to consider these things.  But when you have done all that is possible in the situation you are not responsible for the actual outcome.  That battle belongs to the Lord.  If it is good for His glory you may see a victory today.  If God chooses to be merciful to sinners, then that is His business.  You can always trust God to do what is right. 

While you are resting in the Lord evil will try to overcome your peace.  These verses tell you what to expect, how to handle the stress, and the ultimate outcome.
Cease from anger, and forsake wrath: fret not thyself in any wise to do evil.
For evildoers shall be cut off: but those that wait upon the Lord, they shall inherit the earth.
10 For yet a little while, and the wicked shall not be: yea, thou shalt diligently consider his place, and it shall not be.
11 But the meek shall inherit the earth; and shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace.’

Personally, I am watching the global scene.  I have to admit that sheer stupidity and wicked behavior of world leaders does make me very angry.  I know this is sin.  I don’t want to do that.  What I try to remember is that the vast majority of these people are lost people.  They are headed for hell.  They work for the devil himself, whether they acknowledge this fact or not.  I am supposed to be praying for them.  I am not supposed to hate them.  I would like all humanity to turn to Jesus and be saved from hell.  In the mean time, as we watch evil advancing around the world, we should not be cast down or fear the worst.  Ultimately we do not have the mental capacity to grasp the temporary nature of this world and the timelessness of heaven.  According to God’s word we can be at peace knowing that the wicked of this world will not always win.  Their final defeat will be permanent.  They will be finally and totally defeated on God’s time frame.  Just think.  If those living hundreds of years ago had had their wish that God end evil immediately, then you and I would have never been born.  God has a plan, and it does include the birth and lives of many people.  It appears that the end of this age will soon be here, but God is the one who knows.  In the mean time we can trust God to do what is right, to care for His children, and call the lost to repentance.

Read the rest of the Psalm at the end of this article.  The Lord repeats that He will help His children and that we have a wonderful future. He repeats that the wicked will not triumph over His goodness.  Transgressors will be cut off.  God has wonderful blessings for His children.

Let us all begin to work at following the instructions in this Psalm. 
Fret not.
Trust, delight, commit.
The wicked are facing a judgment that the children of God will never face.
The children of God are assured of a wonderful eternal future in heaven with Jesus Crist and all other believers.
We that wait on the Lord to bring about His kingdom in His time will not be ashamed.  Let us have enough mercy on the wicked to pray for them.  Evangelism is the way to have a good effect on this world now.  Tell the world that Jesus saves. Everyone will face their eternal destiny when their earthly life is over.  Believers in Jesus Christ will face a life of wonder and joy in heaven. The wicked will face an eternity without hope or joy.  Let us have enough mercy to sincerely pray for the lost. 

Remember that there really is a better world coming.  Fellow believers will meet us there.  Do your duty today and tell the world that Jesus saves.  Even better, tell your family, friends, co-workers, and everyone you meet.

‘Will the Circle be Unbroken?’

That was supposed to be the end of this article, but it seems like I must add one more thing.  Whatever we must face in the future, or whatever we are facing today, it is no worse than what some people faced in the past.  For an example of right actions under extreme conditions the Bible gives us the example of the three Hebrew brothers. They were taken from their home and placed in a pagan environment.  From the very beginning of their captivity they determined to follow God at all costs.  Eventually, the king commanded that they bow down to a golden image of him or be thrown into a fiery furnace. The brothers did not bend in their determination to serve God.  They said that God could protect them if He chose, but if God chose not to protect them – well – so what?  They still would not bow to the king, so the king had them tossed into the fire.  I know a lot of people today face dreadful tests of their faith.  Some are life threatening, and some Christians are martyred every single day for refusing to bow down to someone demanding they turn from their faith in God.  The Bible is correct when it says there is nothing new under the sun.  Evil hates good.  It will be like that until God Himself changes things.  In the meantime, Christians are to be like these Hebrew brothers.  We are to stay faithful to God.  We know that in any circumstance that God is able to deliver us if He chooses to do so. He may choose to take us directly to heaven instead of delivering us.  He may allow us to go through lengthy trials.  Our duty is to stay faithful to God no matter what the difficulties we face.  We know it may mean death or persecution.  But we also know that it might mean a miracle, which is what happened with the three Hebrew brothers. One like the Son of God walked with them in the fire and kept them safe.  This is a literal record of actual events.  However, it seems to have application to some trials that are not quite so fierce.  Sometimes it seems like we are facing a furnace of fire. Sometimes it seems like life is just too hard to continue.   Here is a song that sings of the story of the brothers, and how their faithfulness was rewarded in a mighty way.  We don’t know what God’s particular plan is four our lives, or how He will resolve our trials.  However, we can be certain that the Fourth Man in the fire will be with us through whatever trials we face.  Enjoy ‘The Fourth Man in the Fire



Psalm 37 King James Version (KJV)
 Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity.
For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither as the green herb.
Trust in the Lord, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed.
Delight thyself also in the Lord: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass.
And he shall bring forth thy righteousness as the light, and thy judgment as the noonday.
Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass.
Cease from anger, and forsake wrath: fret not thyself in any wise to do evil.
For evildoers shall be cut off: but those that wait upon the Lord, they shall inherit the earth.
10 For yet a little while, and the wicked shall not be: yea, thou shalt diligently consider his place, and it shall not be.
11 But the meek shall inherit the earth; and shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace.
12 The wicked plotteth against the just, and gnasheth upon him with his teeth.
13 The Lord shall laugh at him: for he seeth that his day is coming.
14 The wicked have drawn out the sword, and have bent their bow, to cast down the poor and needy, and to slay such as be of upright conversation.
15 Their sword shall enter into their own heart, and their bows shall be broken.
16 A little that a righteous man hath is better than the riches of many wicked.
17 For the arms of the wicked shall be broken: but the Lord upholdeth the righteous.
18 The Lord knoweth the days of the upright: and their inheritance shall be for ever.
19 They shall not be ashamed in the evil time: and in the days of famine they shall be satisfied.
20 But the wicked shall perish, and the enemies of the Lord shall be as the fat of lambs: they shall consume; into smoke shall they consume away.
21 The wicked borroweth, and payeth not again: but the righteous sheweth mercy, and giveth.
22 For such as be blessed of him shall inherit the earth; and they that be cursed of him shall be cut off.
23 The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way.
24 Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down: for the Lord upholdeth him with his hand.
25 I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread.
26 He is ever merciful, and lendeth; and his seed is blessed.
27 Depart from evil, and do good; and dwell for evermore.
28 For the Lord loveth judgment, and forsaketh not his saints; they are preserved for ever: but the seed of the wicked shall be cut off.
29 The righteous shall inherit the land, and dwell therein for ever.
30 The mouth of the righteous speaketh wisdom, and his tongue talketh of judgment.
31 The law of his God is in his heart; none of his steps shall slide.
32 The wicked watcheth the righteous, and seeketh to slay him.
33 The Lord will not leave him in his hand, nor condemn him when he is judged.
34 Wait on the Lord, and keep his way, and he shall exalt thee to inherit the land: when the wicked are cut off, thou shalt see it.
35 I have seen the wicked in great power, and spreading himself like a green bay tree.
36 Yet he passed away, and, lo, he was not: yea, I sought him, but he could not be found.
37 Mark the perfect man, and behold the upright: for the end of that man is peace.
38 But the transgressors shall be destroyed together: the end of the wicked shall be cut off.
39 But the salvation of the righteous is of the Lord: he is their strength in the time of trouble.
40 And the Lord shall help them, and deliver them: he shall deliver them from the wicked, and save them, because they trust in him.

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

The Anti-Feminist Woman



Finding Joy in who you are
Barbara Henderson – the anti-feminist

There are a lot of totally unhappy people in this world.  One that comes to mind often because she stays in the news is Hillary Clinton.  She could win all sorts of awards as an unhappy unattractive person. Obviously, I can’t stand her.  If you like her you probably won’t like this article, although it isn’t really about her.  It is about claiming who you really are and being content in living your life.

First of all, you are either male or female.  There are thought patterns and medical procedures that can appear to alter that, but no matter what surgeries one has, or what hormones they take, they are still the same gender as they were born.

Neither gender is better or worse than the other.  Both are good.  Both are blessed by God.  Both are created to fill certain roles.  Women are better at being mothers than men.  Men are better than being fathers than women.  Duh!  This doesn’t mean that one parent can’t raise a decent child, because he/she can.  But, it does mean that a father who is standing in as both parents will still always be a father.  A mother who is standing in as both parents will still function as a mother.  There is no shame in that.  There is nothing wrong with that.  What is wrong is that men and women are being pushed to be more gender neutral.  This is an impossibility.  You are a man or a woman.  Enjoy being yourself!

Ladies, young women, old women, teenage girls, young girls, YOU were created by God Himself.  Don’t try to be who you aren’t.  Accept being born female as a specific gift from God to you personally. Sadly, there are people today, and especially some women, who hate women.  They hate themselves because they aren’t men, and they hate men even more.  These women have very loud mouths.  Honestly, looking at them and listening to them makes you wish there was a third choice for gender – kidding of course.  The older feminist crowd is obviously miserable.  The younger feminist crowd is just as obviously quite slutty.  They think they are really showing the world how free they are by sleeping with anyone who is willing to take what they give away free.  There may be some in-betweens there that sort of look like they are something between a hag and a slut.  This group may have to pay someone to take what the younger women are giving away free. I really don’t care to have all the details on just how that actually works.  As you can see, I find feminists totally disgusting.  I do acknowledge that God loves them.  He wants them to turn to Him for salvation.  I know some of them claim to be saved, but their actions do point in the opposite direction.

So, what are women who want to actually act like women supposed to do? 
First, they are to see what boundaries are set for proper Christian behavior in the Bible.  The Bible doesn’t say a woman has to get married.  It doesn’t say she has to be a slave to a husband if she does get married.  It does say sex is for inside a marriage of one man and one woman.
A woman is supposed to obey the commandments, follow the instructions of Jesus to love others the way He loves us, and to treat others the way we want to be treated.
Second, within the boundaries of proper and right behavior set by God a woman is free to do whatever she wants to do and is physically and mentally able to do.  Feminists would love to restrict women from doing what they want to do unless it goes along with their agenda.  If you happen to be a woman who has been blessed with a husband who is able to provide for you and your children, maybe you do not plan to have a job that contributes to the family income.  Maybe you actually do want to stay home and raise your own children.  Nobody is stopping you Go for it!  Of course you definitely will be ridiculed and looked down on by the likes of Hillary Clinton – and her sort – you know the ones I am talking about.  Hillary didn’t decide to stay home and bake cookies.  She doesn’t want you to be able to make a different choice. 

So ladies of all ages, it is time for a little self-definition. Just exactly who are you? ( see my article on self-definition here    http://tobarbara.blogspot.com/2011/06/self-definition-who-are-you-really.html )

Second, it is time for a lot of self-discipline.  After you figure out who you are, then you need to figure out what is required to actually live the life a person with your self-definition is supposed to live.  Here’s a hint.  If you are a Christian, God has clearly set down the boundaries within which you are supposed to live.  In a nut shell it is love one another as Christ loves you. 

Within these boundaries there are many many choices that you are free to make.  Do you love fishing?  Personally I don’t, but I do know a lot of women who actually love fishing.  How about hunting?  Yes?  No?  There is no wrong answer.  Do you think you would like a career in science?  Teaching?  Auto racing?  Motorcycle repair?  Then go for it.  But don’t’ be pushed into doing what has traditionally been considered a man’s occupation simply because you have to prove that women can do anything a man can do.  Confident women are born knowing that anyway.

OR – perhaps you actually want to be a married woman who stays home and raises her children.  This requires skill, ability to live on a budget, patience, and a ‘get the job done’ attitude.  You may wind up doing handy-man repairs on a daily basis, cleaning like a cleaning lady, cooking like an overworked chef, stain removal of dirty laundry, mowing the grass, and even painting the house.  I have no doubt you can do anything that you are physically able to do if you actually want to do it.  I can also guarantee that if you chose to stay home you will be looked down upon by many women and society in general.  You will be seen as a relic of the past, a woman who is dominated by a man, a woman who is afraid to try to make it on her own, and any other insult that can be thrown at you simply because you were brave enough to just do what you want to do with your own life.  Don’t let social or political pressure cause you to do things that are wrong or things that you simply don’t actually want to do.

I recently read an article about women being given preference in science fields, only to drop out of their particular field of science at a rate much higher than men.  It is a clear case – at least it is to me – of women being pushed into going into a field of study that has been traditionally male dominated simply because they can.  There was no real deep love of their work and no personal calling to go into that field.  If they had stuck with it they would have wound up hating their job and probably deeply in debt.  The same thing probably happens quite often to men or any human being who goes into a field of work for any reason other than they feel called to that type of work.

Many years ago after finishing high school, my grandmother went to ‘teaching school’ at the age of seventeen.  The school lasted six weeks.  She started her first job that fall.  Grandmother said that the first week of teaching school was spent being counseled on whether or not each student should be there in the first place.  The instructors said, ‘A teacher must be called to teach just a preacher is called to preach, or they should find another profession.’  Wow!  But we Christians can add more to that.  We should be called to do whatever we decide to do as our profession.  A basic way of determining your calling is first decide what is possible within the boundaries of your self-definition.
Then decide what things actually interest you.
Then look at your actual opportunities.
Then you make a choice and go for it.  
(An aside here is that Grandmother taught 4 years before she married Gramps. She also taught again during the war years. She said she had 72 students one year, and every student learned because: 
the material was presented clearly
She required them to learn
Parents backed her up - the poor kids had no where to hide.  It was 'get your lessons done - or stay up all night until you get with the program'.) 

My husband Jerry is a multi-talented guy.  He will tackle anything.  He is good at everything.  I realize he is unusual and I am very thankful for him.  His interests are automobiles, (the faster the better), all manner of carpentry and wood working, and some sports that are not really safe.  He could have built his own  race car and then been a professional driver, but he never really had the opportunity.  It came down to mechanics or carpentry.  The Air Force trained him as a mechanic.  Carpentry is his hobby.  I think he would have been equally content in carpentry but auto-repair was the opportunity that presented itself.  If he had actually been determined to be a carpenter he could have pursued carpentry, but he is took what was offered.  He has never regretted it.    That is how it often works.  It could have been bad if he had spent his life regretting being a mechanic instead of a carpenter.  Personally for me it has meant that I always have had a dependable vehicle, and I have also had someone who does all sorts of building projects for me.  (I am getting a new hardwood floor this month installed by my sweet husband, AND he is adding a back porch to the house after that.  What a wonderful blessing!)

A single woman does have to support herself.  She does need an education or training for a good paying job. Ladies I highly recommend that you get technical training or a college degree in some field that interests you to the extent that is possible. It isn’t in a woman’s best interests to sit around and wait to be rescued by a man.  If she does get married then there are more choices to make.  I will tell you flatly that the best choice for women with children is to do what is best for their children.  This does not mean that you must give your children the best.  It means you must do what is best for your children. That means you give them as much of your time and attention (and discipline) is possible.  It may mean your career will be interrupted.  Big deal! 

There is true freedom in Christ Jesus.  Don’t be led into bondage by women who don’t know Christ.  You are not obligated to fight against men. You are not obligated to feel sorry for yourself because some discontented feminist thinks women are not treated fairly.  Really – give me a break.  I freely admit I am not treated fairly.  My poor husband works all the time to support a wife who has been too sick to actually bring in an income for most of our married life.  In return I try to spend money wisely and stay cheerful.  How is that fair to him? Our main difficulty is that I love spaghetti and he hates it.  He is sorry I have been sick.  He never feels sorry for himself.  I know he would be a rich man if he hadn’t chosen to support his family all these years.  I love being his wife.  I don’t bake cookies because I really don’t especially care for most cookies.  I sit around and type on the computer for recreation.  I have a good life.  I am thankful to God for His blessings.

Ladies, teenage women, old women, young women, sisters, aunts, and friends, just concentrate on being the person God created you to be.  You have specific gifts.  One of those gifts is being born female.  It doesn’t make you better or worse than men.  God made you female because that will be most helpful in whatever tasks He has for you in this life.  It is sort of like skin color.  It doesn’t make you better or worse to have more or less pigment in your skin.  It makes you better suited to take the gospel to those Christ puts in your life.  That is all there is too it.  Enjoy who you are.  Tell the world ‘Jesus Saves’.  That is not limited to any age or gender.  Love your family.  Do what is right according to the word of God.  Remember, ‘For the Lord is good; his mercy is everlasting; and his truth endureth to all generations.  Psalm 100:5